How do you say "hi" in a royal way?

How to Say "Hi" in a Royal Way

When meeting royalty, a simple "hello" won’t quite cut it—etiquette calls for something a little more refined. While there’s no verbal phrase like “Hi, Your Majesty” that qualifies as officially royal, the real gesture lies in the physical greeting.

Men traditionally offer a slight neck bow—just a subtle dip of the head, not a full-body bow. It’s dignified, respectful, and over in a second. Women, on the other hand, may choose to perform a small curtsy: a gentle bending of the knees while keeping the posture graceful and modest. Neither gesture is forced, but both are long-standing customs when in the presence of kings, queens, or other members of the royal family.

That said, modern interactions have become more relaxed. In recent years, many members of the royal family have embraced handshakes—especially during public walkabouts or official visits. In fact, some royals, including the late Queen Elizabeth II, were known to encourage a more approachable atmosphere, often initiating handshakes themselves.

So while bowing and curtsying remain the traditional “royal hello,” a firm, polite handshake is perfectly acceptable—and sometimes even preferred—in most contemporary encounters. The key isn’t perfection in form, but sincerity in respect.

Whether it’s a nod, a curtsy, or a handshake, the royal greeting is less about strict rules and more about acknowledging the moment with grace.