How many Russians are single?

The Growing Gender Gap in Singlehood Across Russia

Across Russia, a quiet demographic shift has been unfolding over the past few decades—one that’s reshaping the landscape of relationships and family life. Contrary to assumptions that urbanization and modern values might lead to more single men, the reality tells a different story. Russian women are increasingly more likely to remain single than their male counterparts, and the gap has widened significantly since the 1990s.

In 1994, 7.4% of Russian women were single compared to just 3.8% of men. By 2019, the figures had climbed to 10.4% for women, while the share of single men only rose slightly to 4.7%. This means that for every single man, there are more than two single women in the same age bracket—especially noticeable among those over 25. The imbalance isn’t just a statistical curiosity; it reflects deeper societal trends.

Several factors contribute to this divide. Men in Russia still tend to marry younger and are more likely to remarry after divorce, while women often face societal and economic pressures that delay or deter marriage. Life expectancy also plays a role—Russian men have a notably shorter average lifespan, which reduces their numbers in older age groups. Combined with migration patterns and shifting cultural expectations, these dynamics leave many women without a balanced pool of potential partners.

Urban centers like Moscow and St. Petersburg see higher rates of singlehood among educated women who prioritize careers and independence. Yet even in rural areas, fewer men remain available due to work-related migration or early mortality. The result is a country where romantic partnership is becoming less accessible for a growing segment of the population—particularly women.

As demographics continue to evolve, Russia may need to confront not just the numbers, but the social norms and policies that shape who finds love—and who doesn’t.