What is an ex-military person called?

What Do We Call Someone Who Served in the Military?

When someone leaves the military, they’re often referred to in different ways—some official, others more casual. The most accurate and respectful terms depend on their service and discharge status.

“Veteran” is the most common and widely recognized term. According to U.S. law (38 U.S.C.), a Veteran is someone who served in the active military, naval, air, or space service and was discharged under conditions other than dishonorable. This includes those who served full-time, even if only for a single term, and regardless of whether they saw combat.

Another acceptable term is “former service member,” which describes anyone who has left active duty—whether they retired after a long career or were separated earlier. “Retiree” is used specifically for those who completed a full career, usually 20 years or more, and left under honorable conditions.

It’s important to avoid vague or incorrect labels like “ex-military,” which can sound dismissive or carry unintended connotations. The military community generally prefers terms that acknowledge service and sacrifice, not just past status.

Many people wear their veteran status with pride. In everyday conversation, simply saying “veteran” or “service member” is respectful and accurate. For official purposes—like accessing VA benefits—the legal definition matters most, but in daily life, recognition and gratitude go a long way.

Whether they served in the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, or Space Force, those who’ve worn the uniform deserve recognition—not just in labels, but in understanding.